In contemporary society, expectations for love and marriage are often considered an indispensable part of life. However, from a metaphysical perspective, love is not the entirety of life. Especially for women, making the wrong marriage choice can lead to a lifetime of regret, causing deep confusion and distress.

In Bazi numerology, if a woman's chart has an excessive and overly strong presence of "Guan Xing" (Direct Officer) and "Sha Xing" (Seven Killings) stars, it can exert immense pressure on the "Ri Zhu" (the self). In such cases, if the Bazi indicates "Ji Guan Sha" (avoiding Guan and Sha), it suggests that entering into marriage or a relationship might bring endless troubles and obstacles. This not only affects one's fortune but also has a profound impact on one's personality.

If a woman's Bazi chart has an excess of Guan Sha, potential risks include: suppressed personality and lack of self-confidence. When facing life's choices and challenges, women may feel insecure and fearful. They might experience a loss of self-worth due to over-reliance on parents or a spouse, which can then affect their life planning. At the same time, the Guan Xing and Sha Xing in the chart are associated with power and responsibility. If not handled properly, one may encounter legal disputes, conflicts, or even career setbacks. This not only puts personal stress on work but also affects the development of interpersonal relationships.

For women whose Bazi indicates "Ji Guan Sha," the heavy influence of Guan Sha affects their marital status, potentially leading to marital discord, emotional fluctuations, and even a potential risk of marriage-related disasters. Meanwhile, long-term emotional suppression can lead to health problems. In Bazi numerology, emotional fluctuations are closely related to physical health, and with excessive Guan Sha, women are prone to various illnesses.

In modern society, marriage seems to have become a necessary path for many women to achieve self-realization. However, when love and marriage are misaligned, problems inevitably follow. Many women, in their excessive pursuit of marriage, neglect their own needs and values, leading them into wrong relationships. When marriage does not live up to expectations, pain and disappointment become unavoidable. With the power of Guan Sha being too strong, women often feel unhappy, their lives filled with arguments and discord with their partners, and even avoid marriage out of fear, leading to stagnation in life's progress.

In such a state, the more a woman yearns for love and marriage, the more likely she is to fall into confusion. Conversely, only those who learn independence and have clear self-awareness can find true happiness in relationships. In a relationship, if the other person cannot understand oneself or treats oneself in the wrong way, such a relationship is absolutely not worth pursuing.

Precisely for this reason, self-growth and independent consciousness are deeper existences intertwined with love. This requires women to start from within themselves, recognizing that love and marriage are not the entirety of life. Before getting married, it is advisable to understand one's Bazi and personality, and to use this knowledge to guide one's choices, as this is the correct path to happiness.